I'm Back!

I've been silent and hidden for far too long, leaving my passion for writing squashed and stuffed into a deep dark pit. On that note, the next few posts may have a little dust and rust as I work the machine again. Man, so much has happened. God has been doing extraordinary things! Amazing things! I honestly don't even know where to begin.

It probably makes sense to start with where I left off...but I don't want to.

On that note, lets talk about how crazy hard it is to follow in Jesus' footsteps...or is it feet steps? I'm pretty sure footsteps is correct. (Feel free to correct me all my grammar buffs.)

Obedience has been a constant theme God has impressed on our little family this year. It has eclipsed many areas of our lives radically changing us. And I'm not referring to our fashion and likes or dislikes. It has been a deep cleaning of our souls, scrubbing out rebellion and self-serving...If we were refrigerators, our souls would be like those refrigerators (I may or may not be referring to my own) that always seem to have a layer of dirt, and decaying food, regardless of how often it is cleaned out. Even though God has been working in this area of our lives, if anything is has shown us how much self-serving and rebellion in living inside of us.

Long story short; we have learned that obedience to God's word, and His personal leading of our lives, is super hard, and usually results in hardship and persecution. On the other hand, it is embodied with the deepest joy, most absurd peace, and hope that drives right through the mess. There nothing; no experience in my life that can compare to the effects of living for Christ.

Two major highlights and examples of what God has been doing in this area are as follows:
1. Alex was lead to reconnect with his biological Dad after years of pain and unforgiveness. 
                    In this, the pain and hardship came from having to work through emotions he had stuffed deep down inside, and navigating the tricky and very tedious world of managing a newfound relationship in correlation with his intimate relationship with him and his Mom.
                  The joy and delight of Lord brought healing, restoration, and an opportunity to grow a relationship that honors and glorifies God. Our family grew, and hearts healed. In that, we had an opportunity to watch God answers prayers in amazing ways first hand.  
2. We were lead to consider and then ultimately pursue Foster/Adoption with our local county.
                 In this, the pain and hardship came from the sacrifices we made for a child we took in, and ultimately it ended with deep heartache and trauma for all involved. Included an active investigation against our family. We feel deeply in love, and in the end, we had to let go and trust God with the ending of this child's story.
                  The joy in this is hard to find at times. But God covered our family with peace; He protected us. Hopefully, He used us in this child's life while He was in our home, He taught us many things about love, and choice and He used this child to show us how great and sovereign He is, even when things don't make sense.  This was an instance when God showed us how high the cost of obedience could be.


Things have been crazy, and this isn't even a slight picture of everything that has transpired over the course of the last few months. I've been afraid to write and share because some of the things God has been doing, can be difficult to talk about.  I've been struggling with transparency. God has had to work in my heart. He has exposed so many evils in me, and instead of sharing my broken and trusting God with it, it was easier to close up and walk away.

That being said, I'm working on it, and praying about it.

I've missed my readers and hoped to continue to trust God and in that write, even when I'm not sure what to say. After all, to God is the Glory, in all things. In my weakness, He is my strength; He is grace is covering, and He is ultimately exalted.

Before I go, I want to leave you with this thought: What is God speaking to you? Where is He leading you? Are being challenged? Are you actively looking to follow Christ? Are you willing to obey not matter the sacrifice may be?

I want to encourage you, while the life of a disciple is not easy, it is  encompassed with the presences of God. There is nothing more powerful in the world or satisfying, then walking in Him.



Love,
Leah

An Open Letter to My Husband

My Beloved

I choose you. You need to know that I chose you 7 (almost eight) years ago and I’m still choosing you today. I see your strength and devotion when you rise morning after morning in the early hours of the dawn. I see the weariness and stress that engulf you when you don’t think I’m looking. I know the hours of work you spend pouring yourself into work, school, parenting, our marriage, and all the lives of those God puts into your path day after day. I have watched you struggle to provide for us, never giving up, never giving into the pressures around you. I have watched you humble yourself over and over to do what you thought was best for us. I see you.

I want you to know that while I’m at home with our children, with your girls, I see you. As diapers need changing and the toddler is screaming because food got on her finger, I see you. When I’m up nursing at night and you have finally crawled to bed with bloodshot eyes, I see you. When I have grocery shopping, therapy, laundry, and a house to clean with two little ones in tow, I see you. When I’m lonely and struggling to hold it together, I see you. Everything that we have made together has been through God’s grace and your steadfast devotion. You are the reason I love being a mamma. Your sacrifices for our small, but growing world are what holds us together.

Our marriage hasn’t been perfect and parenthood has been a whole new ball game to boot. Boy, we sure didn’t know what we were getting into. The biggest thing God has taught me through it all, is that no matter what is going on in our crazy chaotic life, I will always have a choice. I can choose to find joy in the midst of stress and sadness, I can choose to pursue peace in the midst of chaos, I can choose to forgive instead of opening my heart to bitterness, and I can choose you. I do choose you. I chose you 7 years ago, to love, to stand by, to serve, and I still choose you today.

I know it hasn’t been easy. Motherhood has drained me, and more often than naught, my devotion has been carelessly poured into our kids, and all of the other little things in our lives, leaving leftover bits and pieces for you. Despite all of that, you still stood tall, without complaint, carried the weight of our little life. I’m sorry. I’m sorry that I’ve sacrificed you for our children, for my hobbies, and for my troubles. I’m sorry that I had stopped choosing you for a time.

You are the love of my life. Through the up’s and down’s, I will choose to see you, to adore, serve, and pray for you, before I complain or criticize you.  I will choose to pursue you instead of shutting you out when things become difficult. I will choose you before pushing you aside for the demands of others. I am first your wife and second a mother. I’m learning that it is all too easy for the places to swap when life happens, the babies cry, and the needs of the world knock on our door.

I just want you to know that as my husband and my best friend, I choose you over my phone, my TV shows, my books, and my hobbies. I also choose you over our children, over our home, and over our friends. And no matter what the future holds, I promise to choose you, in the midst of the fire and floods.

                                                                                                Because I love you.

                       

A Year of Miracles

This year has been a year of miracles. Big miracles and little miracles. My faith has been tried, tested, and blown away by the faithfulness and grace of God. He has taught me that He cares about the little things and big things, most importantly that He cares about the condition and the longings of my heart. This time last year, I didn't know that I was pregnant with a miracle baby. I didn't know that I would be so sick the doctors would say I needed a miracle if I was going to survive. I didn't know that in the midst of all of that, my family would struggle financially, or that my daughter would face unexpected challenges developmentally. I didn't know that my husband was going to end up working full time and doing school full-time in addition. I didn't know that my faith was going to be tested in ways I couldn't have imagined. That was the year that followed despite my wildest dreams. 

While this year has not been easy, (not that any year in my life ever has been) it has been filled with joyful moments, peace, and the grace of God. My miracle baby is an overflow of joy in the midst of health issues, my Charlie girl is discovering the world around her continuously and I have the blessed joy of staying home with her watching her grow and teaching her.  My husband and I grow closer and more intimately interwound in each other's hearts and lives; becoming more and more as one through Christ and less like two trying to fit into each other's worlds. 

God has filled our lives with deep friendships, a church family, and visions for our future. We have experienced love on a whole new spectrum and thrived through relationships we didn't know where possible. My babies Godmother moved back home this year and has blessed us and our family so much with her devotion and servants heart, I've made friends with new mom's, young families at church and people from my past. God has also brought biblical mentors into my life which is something I've longed for through the past years. This year was hard but God didn't let me face it alone. He surrounded my family and my heart with people who would be an outpouring of the love of Christ.  

Spiritually, finding peace in the midst of the chaos of this past year was easily the most challenging part of the year. I love how Adam Houge phrased it in his book 'With Jesus in the Quietness', "To portray a peaceful heart in the midst of distress is an expression of profound faith."  This is everything I strive for in my day to day living. Only through the Holy Spirit and complete surrender is it possible. Through every distress to have faith in the power and sovereignty of God there is room for peace. I am far from mastering faith, but my faith is constantly growing and strengthening in God. 

This next year my prayer is that my faith will increase and that peace would fill my days regardless of what I may face in the coming weeks and months. It is also for you, that God would increase your faith and that you would experience His outpouring of love, grace, and mercy in your life whatever may await you in the coming days.